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August 2008 
Has something you resisted ever ended up being for the best?
Posted on Jan 24th, 2008
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Iza
Iza
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for January 24, 2008:
Yes, pretty much always. Though I think being hit with this spiritual 2x4 to the head enough times has taught me to open my mind up a little bit more and consider what I'm fighting against (change? growth? newness?). It's never easy giving up friends and lovers, but those changes, the ones where someone leaves or you need to leave, or it just needs to be clean break, as opposed to growth into a new friendship or love, always just plain piss me off and bring out way too much stubbornness in me. Mostly with myself, frustration I didn't see it coming, or that I don't know where to go from that place.
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Thanx for sharing…I undertand the value and use of self-blame…as long as it doesn't blind one to what the other person is doing in the relationship….J x